Guest article by Heinz-Peter Tjaden This old house is ...
5th December 2009
of ways: to find common solutions
"This old house is not a home / Without you here," says a beautiful song by Marit Larsen from Norway. Kim Steiner (real name) knows this feeling. Summer 2007: The 24-year-old for a few days with her daughter in the therapeutic Community Wilsche break. Voluntary. Then they will again gone back to her family, the father of her daughter.
Now Ruthard would Stachowske as head of the institution can do this: With mother and child work together to find a way so that the family can also physically move closer together again. Does not he. Instead, he says, "your dependence on your family is too great."
In letters to authorities, Ruthard Stachowske are happy as someone to whom one is most important, create a nice atmosphere. Kim Steiner, however, experienced what many former patients tell: it is so long under Pressurized until it is even more difficult burden. Writing. Thus, from a mother who took care despite her addiction to her daughter and her apartment in the help their parents, their siblings and other got when she needed help, a violent offender who chastised her child and had deteriorated her apartment was .
Such stories of the levers head of the institution concerned, according to many reports, using psychological tricks in the world of youth services and family courts, which could see through this game only if they were day and night in the facility. Can they not be. That is why authorities believe for a while, it would be better if Children are separated from their mothers. If this point is only achieved a growing fear of the patients from losing all fond of. Abet other patients and patients who are rounded up whenever there is someone to drive into a corner.
remains the many members not hidden. Even the family is not this patient. The mother of Kim Steiner responded to the Internet with furious attacks against Ruthard Stachowske. The switches not only the prosecutor, the 24-year-old has also read what her mother writes: ". Much of this has hurt me, because I do not know the motives of my family"
The team of Ruthard Stachowske collects not only material about this family, it feeds the public prosecutor with material about other families. Twice he achieved as a conviction, a third method has since been discontinued. He is no longer so - and Kim Steiner left a few weeks ago with the establishment of their daughter because she "no longer stand it." But she took all her courage - and had help from outside, which they did not expect.
But not a cat can change his spots, leaving the director of the facility is not the legal way. Only a lawyer from Hamburg, then a lawyer from Uelzen sent warning letters and Cease and desist threatened with court action and other obstructions, to decide the recipients: "If the postman is a registered before the door, we say to him. I refuse to believe"
Ruthard Stachowske This obviously has problems. Gradually, he will have to understand that he has landed in an impasse from which it comes out so no longer: with lawsuits. For at least two have taken a bead so decided, "If the manager sees the device in court on us, then he flies to the command post of the ears." And how!
